!!! 04-0-2017 I did not find an obit for Dell, but her stone has no dod here shows her dod as May 7, 1997 [via the Oklahoman Digital Archives (newspaper)

Oklahoman Archives
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma County, Oklahoma
November 19, 1996, pg 16

William Self, 85, of 226 SE 19, died Friday at South Community Hospital. Services will be at 3 p.m. Saturday at Hunter Funeral Home with buried in Arlington Memorial Cemetery.

Born at Fort Smith, he was a retired 15-year employee of Oklahoma City Water Department. He had lived in Oklahoma City about 22 years. Survivors include his wife, Dell, of the home; a daughter, Mrs. Mildred Matthews, 3110 SE 20; a son, Cecil Boyett, Antlers; two sisters, Thelma Crowley, and Kate Self, and a brother, Oscar, all of Fort Smith; and a brother, Claud, of North Carolina.

Dell Self
 Birth: Aug. 16, 1900
Death: Mar. 7, 1997
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